Feminine Sphere

Femininity, Authenticity and Compatibility
Dating, Femininity

Femininity, Authenticity and Compatibility

By Andrew Aitken I was on a second date last week, and towards the end of the evening the girl told me "You know what I like about you? You don't ask me what I want." I laughed because although I knew what she was trying to say, it sounded like "I like you because you ignore me." So she clarified: "No, I mean, like when it comes to where we are going or how we are getting there, you are decisive and know what you want. You always check to make sure your decision is OK with me, but you don't need my opinion to have your own. Other guys will constantly ask me what I want to do, even though I really don't care; and then it is just awkward because we go back and forth trying to 'let' each other decide - but I don't want to have to make the decisions." This girl and I are compatible (i...
To Soften
Femininity

To Soften

By Jacquelin L. Robinson Men 💪🏻 Masculine 👑 Money 💰 Yes - money is in the space of masculine energy. And there’s a LOT of conversation directed toward women around this - even shaming with regard to her ability to make high sums of money and support herself or generate wealth on her own. There’s another side to this that very few are speaking about. The Man who WANTS to provide for his Woman.He supports her fully in her work. He honors her gifts, loves her passion, respects her wisdom. AND...he desires to provide for her in some financial way. He’s not seeking 50/50, in fact there’s a beautiful empowerment in his ability to care for her physical well-being. There’s a very big (although sometimes subtle) difference between a woman who partners with her own inner masculine to ...
I Have Very High Expectations
Feminine Hypergamy Mindset

I Have Very High Expectations

In response to the meme I shared on my Facebook page, MaryJane Obichere and I had an inspiring exchange. With her permission, I share her lovely photo and words:MaryJane: "Marriage aside (though important), the most strategic women arrange their lives in such a way they they are agile, able to pivot, have the most options and opportunities so they can create the lives they desire."Me: "MaryJane Obichere, I remember my time in West Africa. Women who worked outside the home had in home helpers (laundry, shopping at market, cook, nanny) and weren't nearly as stressed as USA women"MaryJane: "Leah Love, Yes, I love your response! I grew up in Nigeria. We had house help, a driver, as from middle school on I attended boarding, and we had use of the company private jet (to take me to Uni) since...
Ode to the Stay At Home Mom
Homemaker, Mom-ing, Motherhood, Wife Life Marriage Advice, Women & Marriage

Ode to the Stay At Home Mom

It's with gratitude that I take time to beautify myself and environment. Go-slow was a well earned decision after years of working outside the home while raising a family. But first, I needed to choose a man who appreciated a woman basking in her #feminine role as wife and Mother. Go-slow can not be accomplished with a man who values a "do-it-all" stressed out, overworking, overwhelmed woman. I know, in my heart, that a majority of women would consider go-slow as a viable choice if they weren't afraid of social and familial condemnation. The excerpt below from Dr. Laura Schlessinger's book sums up my current mood:"If you decide that the most important thing about your life is your worker-ant role, you’ll likely feel drained a lot of the time and resent the obliga...