Feminine Sphere

Why I Chose Homemaking, Part 1
Feminine Sphere

Why I Chose Homemaking, Part 1

By Mrs. Kuti Honestly, I felt like this was my calling, in so many ways I felt like this life chose me. I remember from a very young age wanting to have the freedom to stay home to nurture my family to their greatest selves, to be fully available to their needs, to always be present. So much so I remember when I turned 15 years old my parents and I were discussing what type ofcar I wanted for my sweet 16th birthday and I remember vividly saying I wanted a minivan lol. In my mind, I could get a toyota or honda now and knowing the history with those brands I could have it 20+ years if I took very good care of it.Plus, I already had my life planned out, married by 25 with three children by 30 years old. And by having my parents purchase my minivan then Iwouldn’t have to purchase one l...
That Mothering Question that Evokes Guilt
Homemaker, Motherhood

That Mothering Question that Evokes Guilt

So, due to Radical Feminism, young girls are raised to believe that women are supposed to have it all but their personal freedom is absolutely their first priority. This priority should always be met. Usually this freedom is first career, work, j-o-b, independence. The reason this is important is because this is what men grow up thinking about and being trained into. Whatever men fixate on, women should as well. The object of desire is to compete with men, to rival them in life goals. Without said competition, a woman's life is meaningless, because there is nothing else; except sexual identity and freedom. Work and sex and the top 2 priorities for any self respecting Rad Fem. Women fall into various positions on the Radical Feminist spectrum, and their answers to this question ma...
When Feminists Behave in Ways that Please Male Chauvinists
Femininity

When Feminists Behave in Ways that Please Male Chauvinists

I am thinking that at this point, those who regularly visit my page are fairly clear on the fact that I am NOT pro radical feminism. Most of 2nd wave and all of 3rd and 4th wave feminism have done so much harm to women, children, men and the family structure. With its roots in man envy, the quest for "liberation" and taking zero responsibility for actions has glorified self-objectification. The end result has been doing exactly what they say male chauvinists want them to do: parade their nakedness, free the nipple and slutwalk movements, provision of sex-on-demand with no strings attached, performance of wifey duties without ever having to put a ring on it, get her pregnant and have her run to the abortion clinic or she'll have the baby with no expectation of his financial or ...
Baby Showers Before Bridal Showers?
Motherhood, Women & Marriage

Baby Showers Before Bridal Showers?

Having multiple baby showers and never having had a bridal shower or been married, is the new norm. Marriage is so very much passe, they say. After all, it's not necessary to have a man around in order to have a baby, they say. Women can do it all by ourselves, they say. This is the message younger generations hear repetitively in main stream media and perhaps in their own families. However, there has to be push back. There has to come a moment when those of us who are conservative OR those of us who have already been down that road of single parenthood, finally speak the truth, despite the pressure to do otherwise. We have to realize that there is always going to be a younger generation of girls, who will one day grow into womanhood. If these girls have NEVER heard it sang, 'First ...
Will Male Feminists Return to Traditional Roles?
Anti Radical Feminism

Will Male Feminists Return to Traditional Roles?

Those who regularly visit my page are fairly clear on the fact that I am NOT pro radical feminism. Most of 2nd wave and all of 3rd and 4th wave feminism have done so much harm to women, children, men and the family structure. With its roots in man envy, the quest for "liberation" and taking zero responsibility for actions has glorified self-objectification. The end result has been doing exactly what they say male chauvinists want them to do: parade their nakedness, free the nipple and slutwalk movements, provision of sex-on-demand with no strings attached, performance of wifey duties without ever having to put a ring on it, get her pregnant and have her run to the abortion clinic or she'll have the baby with no expectation of his financial or parental responsibility (and defin...
A Homemaker’s Dream
Femininity, Motherhood, Women & Marriage

A Homemaker’s Dream

Written by @iamlushparadise This Quarantine places even more emphasis on the way I’ve chosen to live for quite a long time. I’ve always been a home body.I’m used to not leaving home for long periods of time.I love being around my family.I enjoy deep connection.I enjoy a peaceful life.I love reading amazing books.I love to meditate and pray.I enjoy going outside into my back yard to plant my bare feet onto damp earth and ground.I love everything about the home because there’s always something to do in it. I know that if I get bored, I’m not looking deep enough and must get my life all the way together lol. There’s deep alchemy and creativity in Keeping House.The Feminine Arts~ like crocheting, cooking, braiding hair (beautification),washing dishes, knitting, sweeping, etc... and it...
Feminism Steals Femininity
Anti Radical Feminism, Femininity

Feminism Steals Femininity

Article 'How Feminism Tried to Steal My Femininity' by Rebecca Lemke One of my blogging friends, Kitten, asked me if I would join her in a March blogging challenge on writing on the topic of femininity. This challenge is for every day of March, and I won’t be able to fulfill that, but I may do one or two posts during the month. For my part, I’d like to talk about femininity and feminism, or really, how feminism tried to steal my femininity. As many people know, I am an avid critic of the modern feminism movement and some of the concepts it represents. This quote accurately sums up my thoughts on it: I think there is a fundamental misunderstanding that lies at the root of feminism. This has impacted women of all ages, but I think it has especially impacted these young girls...
Mindset Shift for the Fearful Single Mom
Feminine Sphere

Mindset Shift for the Fearful Single Mom

When facing fear, a person can become immobilized and may resort to the familiar path for what feels like escape. The year 2020 has seen a number of incidents publicized to the point of hysteria and single moms and their children are most vulnerable to attack. The attacks on this demographic can be and typically are emotional, spiritual, mental and physical. As a mother, a once single + divorced mother, I feel particularly tied to the plight of moms and their children. Because of this, I have decided to write a series of exploratory, solution-based articles that I hope may be of service to those will to read and to share with women and children in need. While there are a plethora of pundits and advice-givers, what I have learned from my own experience when pulling myself out of po...
The Importance of Understanding Masculinity
Feminine Hypergamy Mindset, Feminine Self Care, Femininity, Wife Life Marriage Advice

The Importance of Understanding Masculinity

By Candice Smith Adelewole When I got married it was the first time in my life that I had ever lived with a man from the time my parents had gotten divorced at the age of 7. Yikes! It was the first time in all those years hearing a male voice every single day, or observing male behavior first hand on a regular basis.Being raised in a female dominated family environment didn’t prepare me for married life. I had to learn many things the hard way.I had to learn that men have feelings too, and need quiet space to think their problems out. That them saying no, isn’t necessarily out of being mean or controlling, but their hardwired instincts to protect and provide for the people they care about. After deep studying and reflecting on masculinity and men, I learned that men and women have tw...
Personal Positivity Campaign
Feminine Self Care

Personal Positivity Campaign

Often we are surrounded by negativity and have become so accustomed to it that we have normalized it. Negativity adversely affects our emotional wellbeing, even if we have been numb to how it makes us feel. Negativity makes us feel tense, angry, fearful, tired and much more. But, I’m sure you get the point.   Negativity turns our focus on what is perceived as ‘wrong’ and away from what we perceive as ‘right’. It also keeps our focus away from the reality of what is really happening and what really matters in our lives. Here are examples of negativity: GossipHaters: people who drain us rather than inspire usViolent TV showsNational NewsMusic that is depressing and anger-filled or encourages aggressionNegative self talk (constantly saying to self ‘I’m fat”, “I wish I we...