Pre-Marital Couseling

Letter to My Daughter, From Dad with Love, Part 1
Pre-Marital Couseling

Letter to My Daughter, From Dad with Love, Part 1

Who is going to be first in your life? This is a very important question.  But in modern times, it has become blurred.  In the past, our spiritual and religious belief was foundational and the key driver in life.  Now, for many, this is no longer a guiding principal.  Rather, there is a make-it-up as you go mentality.  As a result, many are fumbling and wandering in the wilderness.  So, what is your guiding foundational spiritual principal in life? In my life, it is the Bible and a belief in God and to rely on Him for grace, mercy, strength, and wisdom. Who is going to be second in your life? No, it is not your mother, myself, or even yourself.  When we think of marriage, it is your husband.  Your sole purpose is to attend to and selflessly meet his ...
The Benefits of Marriage for Men
Pre-Marital Couseling

The Benefits of Marriage for Men

Article by Art of Manliness Lately, marriage has gotten a bad rap. It seems like many people these days feel marriage is some archaic arrangement that holds people back from realizing their full potential. Even if people aren’t particularly anti-marriage, they will avoid getting hitched for as long as they can. Many men delay marriage because they believe that dating and co-habitating offer all of the benefits (particularly sex) of marriage without the commitment and responsibility. They are fooling themselves. Nearly all of the true advantages of marriage (yes, even sex) apply only to actual married couples, not those couples living together, and certainly not to those simply dating. More and better sex. The popular belief is that marriage stifles sexual fulfillment. The ...
Planning a wedding, a marriage and a life is not the Woman’s role or duty
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Planning a wedding, a marriage and a life is not the Woman’s role or duty

In 75 days I am planning to see the most outstanding, most awesome, most wonderful, most amazing woman, my bride, my love, my sweetheart – Leah.  With a soft warm morning breeze, the sun rays glistening between the branches, the strings singing a melody of love, my bride will seem as if she is just gracefully floating down the aisle.   To join me at the alter.  For the two strands of life, our souls, to be uniquely joined like a rope.  Strong, unwavering, determined, bond of life.  April 14th, 2019, seems so far away …  but in the blink of an eye the day will be here.  I am so looking forward to exiting the vehicle of bachelorhood and enter into the ranks of the married.  In my profession I have had the distinct fortune to meet thousand...